A WHITE X’mas to celebrate the 10 years …..
Posted in Celebration n Festivities, Highlights, Huby, Milestones on Dec 21st, 2011
Where did the 10 years go ????
It seemed like it just slipped by when I least expected it
10 years ago we took the vow to live as ONE in good times & bad and I’m proudly announcing that we are still living up to our vow, … understanding…compromising…appreciating… respecting & loving each other more & more

Before the day finally came, I had silly fantacy on how I had wanted to celebrate this “supposing-to be-very-important-occassion”
But nah …. December is really really NOT the time for any critical planning/thinking. It is suppose to be a crucial month as far as my nature of job is concern, yet I still have countless social events to attend to (parties, gathering, lunch, night outs, bakings, cookings) …. boy, why was I so greedy when I only have 2 hands & a brain. It kinda stresses my brain unnecessarily. Furthermore, I’ll be away from work for a 8 days vacation. Perhaps I should not have chosen December for traveling. Yet i like it when time passes by quickly, such a conflicting girl heh :(
And my blog was so so so neglected
We kept our celebration very very humble this time. Chucked the kids to mom, we applied approval from my babysitter for a quiet dinner, just the 2 of us. No gifts & not even a card, that’s just so NOT me!! All i wanted to is to go for a meal that we usually would not opt for, now with a little troublesome baobei around for sure. And what instantly came to my mind is BBQ steamboat…. the Korean sytle would be good :D I had not been able to enjoy a peaceful bbq & steamboat for as long as i remember. Just can’t imagine toddling a young monster for steamboat, can you??
On the day after work, the hubs came over to my office & we hopped over to the nearest mall, Pavilion. Walked around & huby bumped into this japanese shabu-shabu restaurant. Didn’t want to waste time, we just settled in. Nothing to shout about considering my fussy pot’s high standard when it comes to FOOD. Not a place to be back but it was OK, a quiet moment to do some reflections on the 10 years of walk together would be the quality we appreciated.
That pretty much sumed up the day (15 Dec 2011) we celebrated our 10 years of marriage.
A lot of people commented how lucky I was to be able to still travel around despite having 3 kids at home. Yes I embraced that with much blessing. But it was either the hubs had his own vacation with his gang of lou yeh or me having my silais trips. We had NEVER went on a trip just the 2 of us leaving behind the kids. It was just a thing that my mom would not approved of (my tiger mom just had her own very different opinion on this). When she refused to babysit for us, what other option do we have? NIL. But this time, I was adamant to make a change. The big excuse that i gave her was my 10 years marriage *blek* …. time for a good celebration. She eventually gave us the approval (considering i submitted my application since the beginning of the year, ok) but it came with tinch of sourish & charcoal face lah, well ….nothing comes easy dealing with our old folks right so that was pretty tolerable :D
So to make up for the humble meal we had to mark this auspicious occasion, we’ll be traveling (just the 2 of us)…honeymooning & celebrating our WHITE Christmas this year !!!
Till you hear from me again, bye for now!
Merry Christmas & An early Happy New Year 2012 to all


















































































































































